So I had been contemplating on what to write about for my last blog post. I finally decided I'm going to do it on an update of and earlier post 'Relationships Ups and Downs'. I've decided I would update you on how my sister and her ex-boyfriends relationship ended up. When I previously posted about it, it was about 2 months after the breakup and there was so much back and forth which involved a lot of drama. I had kept my self out of all of it and had said nothing, until I was told my sisters ex was going to delete me on facebook for whatever reason. So I put my two cents in there, he responded with nothing other then deleting me.
Well Thanksgiving break came along and as I said before he wanted to see her. She gave in very easily and agreed. I could tell she missed him and wanted to get back together with him, yet he was still confused for whatever reason and kept saying he didn't know what he wanted to do.
Well as of today I have been trying to avoid it all because I feel like having been there for my sister has back fired on me. She tells me they are working it out even though he is back at school which is out of state. That is as much as I know, being she doesn't tell me as much now that she has him back. In a way I guess I don't know hot to completely feel about it, like I don't want to accept him back into our family because of everything he has put my family through and especially my sister.
I was told he is scared of me and wants to talk to me, having already talked with my parents. I know the only way I will ever forgive him is if we do talk. I just feel I should be able to drill him and ask what I want, since my sister didn't get many answers out of him. Overall I guess I just want to know for myself so that I can be happy for my sister and feel that she can maybe trust him. What do you think and how would you maybe have handled it?!
I have to agree with you, if it was my little sister I would grill him also. I do find it easy to see his side in the whole situation, its extreamly tough to have a long distance realtionship but if he isnt willing to try to make it work he should let go. He needs to take the time to consider how she is feeling and that he is "dragging her through the rocks" so to say. Its unfair of him to keep her holding on just to decide its not worth it down the line. If I was him I would be scared of an older sibling too, hes being unfair and needs to come to terms with his actions.
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